Duke City Jacks FAQs

If you've joined the group you may have many questions. Most will be answered here. If you have further questions don't hesiitate to hit us up on KIK or email us!

How do I become a member of Duke City Jacks?

Hit up one of the admins on KIK: abqstroker or bigdukecityblackboy - we can add you to the private group.

Who can join Duke City Jacks?

Duke City Jacks welcomes men over 21 years old of all body types, ages and sizes.

When is the next meeting?

We get this question a lot. Times change throughout the week and sometimes come up randomly throughout the day. Join us in the private kik group to keep up on group meeting details. It's much too difficult to be emailing people individually.

Do I have to be gay?

No. Gay men make up a great part of the group but there are also men of all sexualities who join Duke City Jacks. We are a discrete group who welcome men not only of different sexualities but different home situations. There's a huge array of men who come to the groups.

What are the rules when I go to a meeting?

Although meeting rules may change slightly depending on the venue, the basic rules apply: Feel free to bring any lubes or toys with you but undertand this is group dedicated to masturbation and JO only. No oral or anal sex allowed. The rules are *strictly enforced*. And by this I mean I may tell you to please cut it out with the blowjobs.

There's no oral/penile contact. No oral/anal contact. Use your common sense. If it's not manual or j/o, it's not allowed. Thank you :)

Does it cost anything?

If there is a hotel room that a member has rented, you are free to help chip in to pay for it! Otherwise there's no cost for being a member or using the KIK group.

What if I just want to watch?

You're welcome to. If someone asks you to play and you are not interested, just let them know politely that you are not interested. If you want to join in, and you're unsure if someone wnats to play, just ask. Some guys just like to watch and some guys like to join the fun. Which one are you?

I'm a woman or I want to bring my wife/girlfriend - is that ok?

Duke City Jacks is dedicated to a men-only environment. Other groups have tried to have women be a part of the action - and it doesn't usually work out. These are called Jack & Jill parties.

Also, many men in the group are gay and wouldf eel uncomfortable having a woman in the room. Yes even if she looks like Pamela Anderson. For many different reasons this doesn't work out.

Why can't we have oral sex?

Because I said so.

Just kidding. Because our goal is to make it a safe environment for everyone. There's also just something different about meeting up with guys for j/o only.